Uniform Update

Collection of Jerseys with names on the back will be available at Castle Glen this Saturday 7 Sept from 10am to noon. 
 

Please note sizes 2, 10, 12 & 14 are on back order.

I have been advise these may not be available for the start of the season being Saturday 14 September.  If you are new or cant squeeze into the one from last year can you please pop down on Saturday and we will loan you a sample one to wear. 
They should be available for the second week.
I do apologise for the delay.

All new Tee ballers if you haven’t got your uniform yet.
Please come down this Saturday to purchase.


Our new eftpos machine will be available or you can pay cash.

Chiara


The Card Ride Home Pt-6

The final installment in this 6 part series, the entire series can be re-visited in the archive section.

THE CAR RIDE HOME (that takes 5 minutes)

6) The car ride home is an experience that helps define a parent / child relationship. Here are six topics that have helped me improve myself, understand my son better and allow him to challenge himself to be the best athlete he can. This is your sixth ride sitting in the backseat of my car listening in on our relationship. And if you’re wondering… yes, he did agree to everything written.

Why your patience is a huge key with your child.

A while back I spoke with a high performance coach who also happened to be a scout for a Major League club. He had observed for many years the anxiety parents struggle with as they watch their kids develop in the game.

He asked me to write something on patience. He just wished parents could be more patient with their young athletes and the process. He wished parents could understand that some kids are not skilled or mentally tough enough for professional baseball. They maybe more suited to different levels of college or even being content with being a valuable player in a state team or a club team.

It’s very hard to see clearly where our child sits in the big scheme of things—next to impossible, actually. I find it hard. I like to think I have an understanding of my son but I know I’m blinded. If I applied the odds to my son making it to the top I should be locked up; fancy allowing him to throw away many years of his life striving for a goal that only 6% of those signed professionally ever run onto a major league field. That’s why young athletes are encouraged to have backup plans.

I justify my son’s position: he’s an ‘all or nothing’ guy. I know that’s my characteristic so I don’t know how much it’s me being ‘all or nothing’ for him or him believing it himself. I tell others he’s shooting for the stars and when he falls—as everyone falls at some point—that though the fall will be hard and discouraging, even depressing, family will be there to support him.

This is his reckless adventure.

If my wife and I aren’t patient we will be of no help keeping him on the rails, and he will not listen to our words when we do have something to say.

There must be calmness and a resolute smile about our long suffering. Yes, long suffering, an old English interpretation of what patience means. A parent once said to me, we need to happily suffer together on the sideline.

Be realistic. This sounds hypocritical coming from a parent who encourages his kid on a reckless adventure, but I’ve sort feedback of where my kid sits in comparison to others: skill wise, mentally, and with his work ethic. I’ve been offended by some truths and wanted to be defensive. Fortunately, I chose to say nothing, feel the internal suffering, and take it as positive input for my son to learn from.

Bottom line, if I don’t show patience, if I don’t seek realistic input from outsiders who can observe my son better than me, I am not helping him and am only holding him back. Hard truth to swallow.

Allow your child to become a better you.

Allow your child to find their way.

With patience they will listen to you. With impatience they will ignore you.

Mark Maguire

(You can contact me at maguireonfire@bigpond.com if you would like to discuss your experience or dilemma. I’m always open to learning something new and I’m always open to giving time and thought to help)